We often hear a woman saying “I want a real man!“and such a wish is of course fully justified, as we have already discussed here: What women really want! If – as a woman – you have found such a “real” man, the next question to be made automatically is what kind of woman such a man wants to share his life with.
Being a “real guy” and therefore somebody hotly in demand on the dating market, he will naturally have his own requirements about women. What he basically wants has already been discussed here: What men really want!
There are a number of quite specific recommendations which can be made on how a woman should appear on the first date:
Your physical appearance has to be right. As much as women wish to be liked only for their good character, at first, and as a general principle in terms of attractiveness, it is a woman’s outer appearance what counts for a man. The first thing is, of course, a nice body which should be presented accordingly. And in this respect, being subtle is much better than being too obvious. Good clothes will help a lot in this respect.
If you need help, you can get advice in the store and/or from your best friend, or generally from people who know what kind of clothes make you look best.
Too much makeup is just as bad as too much hair spray. As we have already seen, men want women who look young and healthy, i.e. those who have healthy-looking hair and skin. For this reason, makeup should be applied in such a way that other people are hardly aware of it (even if you have to spend 30 minutes before the mirror). The goal is to make you look a few years younger and very healthy. Hair should be glossy and healthy-looking, so the right combination of shampoo and conditioner, and perhaps a hair care pack (hairdressers and drugstores know a lot and can advise you) should be used.
The right woman is not submissive, but neither is she egocentric nor viciously dominating.
In a dating situation, the issue is not to win a power struggle like at work or an opponent, but rather, to show all the important traits (link what men really want) of a real woman. Allowing the man to lead during the date is not only extremely relaxing for both, but -as a woman- you can sit back comfortably and watch how he performs in this role. However, this only works if you are serious: a man notices if a woman doesn’t take him seriously or secretly mocks every mistake he makes.
The above are just a few very specific tips to get started. If a woman follows them, she will notice quite substantial improvements in her dating life after a very short time. It is obvious that much more can be written about this – something I will do in later blog posts.