Flirting successfully is something meant to be learned. No man is born a natural. When we take a close look at these ‘naturals’, we can see that they got their experience over time and with plenty of exercise. We can easily see how these men send out the right body language signals to their surroundings – something that is immediately detected by women.
Scientists have already found a whole arsenal of signals that can be turned into good flirting advice. This kind of body language is not simply a mystery of nature emitted only by a certain kind of man.
Absolutely every man can train himself in this body language in order to flirt more effectively.
But is it really necessary? The answer is quite surprising: body language has a share of approximately 65% when communicating with other people. Therefore you will give yourself a huge disadvantage if you do not pay attention to how you communicate with your body. ‘Cool’ words and pickup lines have exactly the opposite effect if the body language that goes with them is not right.
Women get to conclusions about a man’s inner values within nanoseconds, just by observing his body language. The body can signal exactly those qualities that are considered as particularly attractive all over the world: e.g. confidence, aggressiveness, high status, good and healthy genes.
All this is registered and assessed quite unconsciously by women within fractions of a second. For this reason, a man must be highly conscious about his body language so as not to spoil his chances for a second date right from the beginning before even one word is said to her.