What are Men Looking For on the First Date?

What are Men Looking For on the First Date?

I will again refer to the article “What Men Really Want!” because that is exactly what men really want – on the first date, on the second date and elsewhere in their relationships with women. A woman who matches exactly these points is valued highly by the man and basically makes everything right. Of course there are completely different interpretations for each point as to what is right or wrong. Especially regarding those relating to inner qualities. Young and healthy looks are always understood the same way: well-dressed and made-up, ideally not overweight, with beautiful hair, etc., and ideally also truly young and healthy, of course.

On the first date, it obviously is important to show these qualities very clearly and accurately, i.e. in this particular case, you should take great care with your looks.

If you are not quite clear on how to go about this, there is help to be got practically anywhere: at the hairdresser’s, the perfume shop/pharmacy, the clothing store, the fitness club, etc.; there are professionals available everywhere to help a woman to improve her appearance.

If the externals are right, then you can also support them by mentioning, for instance, that you are a sporty person who cares for body and health, that you like pampering yourself. This is the verbal support to prove what you are showing with your good looks.

This is absolutely appropriate and will not be perceived as negative. Some women certainly ask themselves: what if I do not look so great? The solution is very simple: every woman can improve her appearance yet a little more. The same tip also applies for men: If someone is too fat, not sporty, malnourished, etc., he/she has to do something about it!

And so we come to the inner qualities

“Faithfulness” and “good maternal qualities” are of course a matter of interpretation, but it is quite clear how a woman can show these:  she is considerate and gladly takes care of the man, showing clear and open interest in him and his life, tries to actively take part of it showing that she would like to act as the support of his life. The whole thing can be backed by verbal stories, about how she has already done that in a previous relationship, or what she wishes for in her life.

A great secret for women who want to lead a good relationship with a man is the following: Men always want to make women happy, and the easier this is achieved, the more satisfied they are with the woman herself and the relationship they have with her. This means that a woman who shows that she is truly and credibly happy with (and because of) a man is the ideal partner and has therefore an extremely attractive effect on men.

Anthony Hunter

Anthony Hunter