On the first date, women wish to meet a man, a “real” man. They have very specific ideas about this, as we have already seen here. A man is required to know exactly what he wants, for himself, for his life and what woman he is looking for and what he expects of her.
Unfortunately, it seems that –generally speaking- we men of today just do not seem to know exactly what we want, although, so to speak, it has been laid out for us already in the cradle. Men all over the world -and this is a scientific fact- look for the following characteristics in women:
- Good mothering qualities
All the attributes that we men find especially attractive in a woman’s appearance are included especially in the first two points: beautiful shiny hair, clear skin, big round breasts, a slim figure, the ideal ratio of hip to waist, symmetrical facial features and a good posture.
Somebody will probably be thinking “Wait, just a moment, is it not allowed to like her personality too?” Of course it is, and the most attractive personality traits are included in points three and four, depending on the specific culture, belonging to certain social classes, the media, etc.
Isn’t this great?
We men like appearances far more than women do, and because we are built like this by nature we need not be ashamed! A woman who has learned that she is only to be liked for her “good character” and accuses us of being interested only in her outward appearance, is fairly right about this. While her intention is to complain about this, we can simply smile and say “Yes, you are right, because you see, I am a man! Now it’s your turn to convince me about your inner qualities, and then we will see. “